For American men

Go where you are wanted.

TaraDate introduces American men to Filipinas.

Meet the women

Ages 18+

A Filipina and an American man enjoying cooking together in their kitchen.

Find someone who genuinely wants you.

A younger woman you find beautiful. Someone who enjoys being close to you, is attracted to you, and wants an affectionate relationship with an active sex life.

A woman laughing as she leans into her partner on their living-room sofa, his arm around her shoulders.
A couple laughing together while sharing street food in the Philippines.

What she sees in you

Your warmth, humor, and the attention you give her can be part of what she finds attractive.

International relationships include men with ordinary working lives and men starting again after divorce.


Relationships that last

Encouraging marriage research

36% lower

Asian women's annual first-divorce rate compared with the overall rate for women in 2021.

8.3 versus 12.9 divorces per 1,000 women in first marriages. U.S. Census data analyzed by Bowling Green State University.

Read the research

Decades of life together

Filipina writer Liza Pierce described life with her American husband as they approached their 24th wedding anniversary in 2017.

Her account describes the everyday humor and cultural differences in their marriage.

An independently published couple's story.

Read her account in Fil-Am Voice

Life together

Time together, affection at home, and a family you both want to build.

A woman embracing her partner at airport arrivals.

Meet her in person

A man and his partner sharing a meal with her family.

Get to know her family

Parents enjoying a backyard afternoon with their two children as the younger child shows a paper airplane.

Plan your future together

Getting started

  1. Sign up

    Use Google or your email and password.

  2. Create your profile

    Add photos and answer questions about yourself and the relationship you want.

  3. Meet the women

    Browse profiles and find someone you'd like to get to know.

Your questions

Who is TaraDate for?

American men and Filipinas who want to meet each other. Everyone must be at least 18. You get to know each other and decide where the relationship goes.

What if I am older or divorced?

You are welcome. Browse the women and see who interests you.

How much is membership?

Membership for men is $100 per month. Filipinas join free.

How are members checked?

Members verify their identity. Men also pass a background screen before contact.

How does messaging work?

You message each other directly. Each member can have up to five active conversations. Messages and photos are moderated, and asking another member for money results in a permanent ban.

How do people meet in person?

You decide together when and where to meet and make your own travel plans.

Go where you are wanted.